Learning How To Deal With Abandonment Issues

Learning How To Deal With Abandonment Issues

During a session with my therapist last week. I realized that a big part of my struggles in romantic connections are due to my abandonment issues. I was able to self diagnose and my therapist confirmed this. My task for my next session was to dig deep within me to figure out where my abandonment [...]

What Are We Teaching Our Daughters?

What Are We Teaching Our Daughters?

Being the mother of a 14 year old is by far a blessing and scary. In three years she will be leaving home and as her mom it's my job to prepare her for the world. I think more than anything I fear failing her. My question to those of you with daughters is what [...]

Soul Tie Tales Pt.2

Soul Tie Tales Pt.2

Runaway Love Author: J'Lee He entered my life but I refused to let him into my heart. Too hurt, too broken from the men before. But there was something in his eyes from the moment we met. They were enchanting... he was enticing and I wanted him so bad. But I wasn't quite ready to [...]

Soul Tie Tales

Soul Tie Tales

Author: J'Lee He feels like a tidal wave of pleasure and pain. Our ups and downs leave me in shambles and chains. Tied by our souls... we're whole when we're together. I hate him... then I love him.... yet I cannot forget him. He kissed my lips and touched my soul. His absence makes me [...]

Unladylike?

Could The Reason You're Still Single Be Because You're To Masculine? Photo by Godisable Jacob on Pexels.com Since we were little girls we were taught to cross our legs, use proper ediquette, wear dresses and to be lady like. Many of us imitated what we saw our moms and grandmothers do. I was that little [...]

It’s Never A Good Idea To Go From Friends To Lovers

It’s Never A Good Idea To Go From Friends To Lovers

I'm sure we've all either heard or learned from previous experience that going from friends to lovers is not always wise. I wouldn't suggest it just based off the couple times that I did it. Enter at your own risk. It could grow into something beautiful and loving or a beautiful nightmare. It really depends [...]

The Wise Mind

The Wise Mind

This particular blog post was inspired by a session I had with my therapist. During this session she discussed DBT with me and made me aware that I was successfully using my wise mind. So, I decided to share this information with you guys. DBT ( Dialectical Behavior Therapy) is a tool used to show [...]

All This Love 💞

All This Love 💞

Author: J'Lee Ever since I met you you've become my everything. I promise to love and cherish you each and every day. You've had my back on some of my toughest days. There's not enough hours, seconds or minutes in a day. To explain how much you really mean to me. Your strength, your smile, [...]

Knowing Your Worth

Knowing Your Worth

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I7PLRXy8VxE He didn't choose me... and I didn't chase him. Photo by nappy on Pexels.com Nothing hurts more than feeling rejected or led on. I remember the goofy shit I would do when I was younger. Like blow someone's phone up. Send a bunch of text messages or stalk their myspace page. Hell I would [...]

The Importance of Knowing You and Your Partners Love Language.

https://youtu.be/de_T1kioTs0 Ever since Gary Chapman came out with his book The 5 love languages: The secret to love that lasts. It's been showing up every where and many of us have been curious about this topic. It's definietly an eye opener and a relationship saver. Most of us learned the love language our parents displayed [...]