Learning How To Deal With Abandonment Issues

Learning How To Deal With Abandonment Issues

During a session with my therapist last week. I realized that a big part of my struggles in romantic connections are due to my abandonment issues. I was able to self diagnose and my therapist confirmed this. My task for my next session was to dig deep within me to figure out where my abandonment [...]

Soul Tie Tales Pt.2

Soul Tie Tales Pt.2

Runaway Love Author: J'Lee He entered my life but I refused to let him into my heart. Too hurt, too broken from the men before. But there was something in his eyes from the moment we met. They were enchanting... he was enticing and I wanted him so bad. But I wasn't quite ready to [...]

Soul Tie Tales

Soul Tie Tales

Author: J'Lee He feels like a tidal wave of pleasure and pain. Our ups and downs leave me in shambles and chains. Tied by our souls... we're whole when we're together. I hate him... then I love him.... yet I cannot forget him. He kissed my lips and touched my soul. His absence makes me [...]

Unladylike?

Could The Reason You're Still Single Be Because You're To Masculine? Photo by Godisable Jacob on Pexels.com Since we were little girls we were taught to cross our legs, use proper ediquette, wear dresses and to be lady like. Many of us imitated what we saw our moms and grandmothers do. I was that little [...]

It’s Never A Good Idea To Go From Friends To Lovers

It’s Never A Good Idea To Go From Friends To Lovers

I'm sure we've all either heard or learned from previous experience that going from friends to lovers is not always wise. I wouldn't suggest it just based off the couple times that I did it. Enter at your own risk. It could grow into something beautiful and loving or a beautiful nightmare. It really depends [...]

The Importance of Knowing You and Your Partners Love Language.

https://youtu.be/de_T1kioTs0 Ever since Gary Chapman came out with his book The 5 love languages: The secret to love that lasts. It's been showing up every where and many of us have been curious about this topic. It's definietly an eye opener and a relationship saver. Most of us learned the love language our parents displayed [...]

Common Mistakes Women Make While Dating

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ff2cl3_00BQ&t=6s I've been single for a year and a half and hunny the mistakes I've made and seen other women make inspired this post. It's time to get real and honest. If you want to cut out on wasted time and disappointments then listen up. https://media.giphy.com/media/3gXYoM8RoUYefG5Osr/giphy.gif I think it's pretty common for women to be [...]

Do We Really Need Closure To Move On? Let's talk about it! People come into your life and sometimes they leave just as quick as they came in.  Relationships end.. friendships end and the effects of that can be hard to deal with. Especially when people exit your life and the reason is unknown. Those [...]

Resilience

Resilience

Turning Lemons Into Lemonade Many of you that have followed my blog from the very beginning. Have noticed that I speak a lot about relationships and dating. Mainly, because most of my life lessons have been learned through my relationships with others. That's the way God saw it fit to teach us how to love, [...]