Happy One Year Blogiversary To Me!!!

I can’t believe it’s been a year since I started this blog. It took an enormous amount of strength and courage to embark on this new endeavor. Just being able to share my thoughts, fears, and experiences to help, heal and encourage others has been extremely fulfilling spiritually and emotionally. I couldn’t be prouder of

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Polyamorous? Marriage? I Do or I Don’t?

Do Men and Women Still Want or Value Marriage? I think we’ve been programmed to think that marriage is something we should all stride for. Since childhood we’ve been taught to get an education, get a good job, find someone…settle down and have kids. But I’ve realized and understand now more than ever that some

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Should You Settle For Just Sex When You Want A Commitment?

I watched an interesting interview over the weekend on the podcast Dear Future Wifey and it inspired this post. I’d like to start this post off by saying never settle for anything in life. If you know you’re worthy of so much. Be it a better job, a raise or a relationship. Anything that is

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The Hidden Blessing In Not Being Chosen.

I feel like it’s almost cliche to say when things don’t work out there’s always something better. But the fact of the matter is that it’s a very TRUE statement. When it comes to matters of the heart everyone wants love. But what happens when the love isn’t reciprocated. What do you do when that

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Learning How To Deal With Abandonment Issues

During a session with my therapist last week. I realized that a big part of my struggles in romantic connections are due to my abandonment issues. I was able to self diagnose and my therapist confirmed this. My task for my next session was to dig deep within me to figure out where my abandonment

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It’s Never A Good Idea To Go From Friends To Lovers

I’m sure we’ve all either heard or learned from previous experience that going from friends to lovers is not always wise. I wouldn’t suggest it just based off the couple times that I did it. Enter at your own risk. It could grow into something beautiful and loving or a beautiful nightmare. It really depends

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Knowing Your Worth

He didn’t choose me… and I didn’t chase him. Nothing hurts more than feeling rejected or led on. I remember the goofy shit I would do when I was younger. Like blow someone’s phone up. Send a bunch of text messages or stalk their myspace page. Hell I would even get my girlfriends phones to

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When Sex Becomes Your Super Power

While listening to Jazmine Sullivan’s new EP Heaux Tales. I came across the video above. I can relate to it and I’m sure a lot of woman can relate as well. I’ve definitely used my beauty, femininity and sexuality to my advantage at times. Some people might say Leesh you’re beautiful… I would’ve never thought

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The Dating Game

Sex Ain’t Better Than Love But since sex has gotten easier to get, love has gotten harder to find. Some would disagree with the statement above. But I stand on my views on this topic and I’ll explain. Who doesn’t love sex? Nothing compares to the feeling you get when your having sex with someone

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