Loving, Losing and Learning
I can’t believe it’s been a year since I started this blog. It took an enormous amount of strength and courage to embark on this new endeavor. Just being able to share my thoughts, fears, and experiences to help, heal and encourage others has been extremely fulfilling spiritually and emotionally. I couldn’t be prouder of
Author: J’Lee This love is more than I could ever ask for and when we collide it’s a beautiful disaster. One look in your eyes sends waves of passion between my thighs. Instantaneously chills flow up and down my spine. I remember praying for your return and now that you’re home…. I need you to
As I sat to write this blog post my anxiety immediately kicked in. It isn’t an easy topic to talk about. But in honor of National Domestic Violence month, I decided to talk about my experiences and to shed light on the topic. I’ve shared my story with a few close friends and family members.
Do Men and Women Still Want or Value Marriage? I think we’ve been programmed to think that marriage is something we should all stride for. Since childhood we’ve been taught to get an education, get a good job, find someone…settle down and have kids. But I’ve realized and understand now more than ever that some
How and where to meet A Good Man. I’m back guys…. two week”s in a row 😊. This weeks topic was inspired by one of my favorite mentors Tony Gaskins. I always find it interesting to hear men talk about what they look for in women. As well as what turns them off and on.
I watched an interesting interview over the weekend on the podcast Dear Future Wifey and it inspired this post. I’d like to start this post off by saying never settle for anything in life. If you know you’re worthy of so much. Be it a better job, a raise or a relationship. Anything that is
I feel like it’s almost cliche to say when things don’t work out there’s always something better. But the fact of the matter is that it’s a very TRUE statement. When it comes to matters of the heart everyone wants love. But what happens when the love isn’t reciprocated. What do you do when that
We all go through things in life.. But I constantly remind myself that after the pain comes better days. Spirituality is what has gotten me through some of my toughest days. Have you ever heard of the dark night of the soul? It’s similiar to depression. But it’s more like a spiritual depression. It causes
Author: J’Lee Sunshine’s Blues I let him fill my ears with lies and my pussy with cum.. thinking he would be the one. Sweet lies… open mind and ears closed to the truth. I believed in us… so I believed in you. Left feeling lonely… I was sad and blue. Heart on cold… love on hold.
Twin Flames By: Author J’lee My friends think I’m crazy because I can’t let you go. But what they don’t realize is you’re the other half of my soul. Yin and yang. Pleasure and pain. The one who holds my heart in his hands. The sweetest love that I’ve ever known. But this chaser runner
During a session with my therapist last week. I realized that a big part of my struggles in romantic connections are due to my abandonment issues. I was able to self diagnose and my therapist confirmed this. My task for my next session was to dig deep within me to figure out where my abandonment
Being the mother of a 14 year old is by far a blessing and scary. In three years she will be leaving home and as her mom it’s my job to prepare her for the world. I think more than anything I fear failing her. My question to those of you with daughters is what
Runaway Love Author: J’Lee He entered my life but I refused to let him into my heart. Too hurt, too broken from the men before. But there was something in his eyes from the moment we met. They were enchanting… he was enticing and I wanted him so bad. But I wasn’t quite ready to
Author: J’Lee He feels like a tidal wave of pleasure and pain. Our ups and downs leave me in shambles and chains. Tied by our souls… we’re whole when we’re together. I hate him… then I love him…. yet I cannot forget him. He kissed my lips and touched my soul. His absence makes me
I’m sure we’ve all either heard or learned from previous experience that going from friends to lovers is not always wise. I wouldn’t suggest it just based off the couple times that I did it. Enter at your own risk. It could grow into something beautiful and loving or a beautiful nightmare. It really depends
He didn’t choose me… and I didn’t chase him. Nothing hurts more than feeling rejected or led on. I remember the goofy shit I would do when I was younger. Like blow someone’s phone up. Send a bunch of text messages or stalk their myspace page. Hell I would even get my girlfriends phones to
Ever since Gary Chapman came out with his book The 5 love languages: The secret to love that lasts. It’s been showing up every where and many of us have been curious about this topic. It’s definietly an eye opener and a relationship saver. Most of us learned the love language our parents displayed when
I’ve been single for a year and a half and hunny the mistakes I’ve made and seen other women make inspired this post. It’s time to get real and honest. If you want to cut out on wasted time and disappointments then listen up. I think it’s pretty common for women to be more of
Smiles hide your pretty lies. Pride hides your scars. Beautiful eyes full of beautiful lies. Who would even know? That there’s hidden beauty and magic that lies within your soul. Beautiful seductress who uses sexuality to get her way. Beautiful lonely girl when it’s over and they choose not to stay. Beautiful broken girl who
While listening to Jazmine Sullivan’s new EP Heaux Tales. I came across the video above. I can relate to it and I’m sure a lot of woman can relate as well. I’ve definitely used my beauty, femininity and sexuality to my advantage at times. Some people might say Leesh you’re beautiful… I would’ve never thought
Today I took a mental health day. I truly dislike days like this!!! But I understand that the sun isn’t going to shine everyday. I know that it’s perfectly okay if I need a moment to rest, relax and rejuvenate. Not long ago I told my therapist how much I hate my depressed days. I
Do We Really Need Closure To Move On? Let’s talk about it! People come into your life and sometimes they leave just as quick as they came in. Relationships end.. friendships end and the effects of that can be hard to deal with. Especially when people exit your life and the reason is unknown. Those
Author: J’Lee My soul was weary, my faith had lapsed. There was nowhere to run. There was no going back. I looked to the sky contemplating…. When? and How? Regardless I decided I was gonna make it. The leap of faith I was gonna take it. I cried out to God with tears in my
Author: J’Lee Here I am a complete mystery. Complicated yet full of so much symplicity. A courageous, outgoing woman with so much dignity. Versatility to transform into whomever I wanna be. Willing to do any and everything as long as it’s what’s best for me. Walking away from anything that no longer serves me. Happy,
The Effects Low Self Esteem Can Have On A Relationship Having a partner that suffers from low self esteem can cause major issues in a relationship. Ladies have you ever dated or been in a relationship with a man that was possessive, jealous or insecure? I’ve experienced this in the past and quite a few
Sex Ain’t Better Than Love But since sex has gotten easier to get, love has gotten harder to find. Some would disagree with the statement above. But I stand on my views on this topic and I’ll explain. Who doesn’t love sex? Nothing compares to the feeling you get when your having sex with someone
New Year, New Goals, New Body, New Anthem, New Love I welcome it all. 2021 Every year everyone’s screaming “new year, new me.” Making new year resolutions and not sticking to them. But in 2021 let’s start the trend of actually accomplishing our goals and sticking to our resolutions. If you’re the type that struggles
Life Lessons With Leesh 