#pain
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Understanding the 4 Attachment Styles: How We Love, Fear, and Connect.
Ever wonder why some people feel so comfortable in love, while others chase it, avoid it, or get stuck in a cycle of both? That’s attachment at work. Attachment styles are the blueprints we subconsciously follow when forming relationships. They’re shaped by how we experienced love, attention, and safety in childhood—and they show up in…
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Anxious Attachment: Understanding the Pattern, Feeling the Feels, and Finding Healing.
Have you ever found yourself overthinking a text message that didn’t get an immediate reply? Or maybe you’ve felt like you cared more in a relationship than the other person did, and that feeling alone triggered a spiral of anxiety and self-doubt? If that sounds familiar, you might be dealing with anxious attachment—a common (and…
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The Hidden Blessing In Choosing Yourself
Let’s get into it. But first we bring God into it. He’s truly who get’s us through it. Romans 8:28 28 And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose. We all have purpose. Sis, your worth it.. focus. Bro you’re…
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Trying To Love An Unhealed Person… Let’s Talk About It!!
Time To Get Real Life is full of many tests, lessons, and hidden blessings. One of the main lessons I’ve learned is that you’ll never feel or be good enough for someone who doesn’t feel good enough for you. That was a mouth full I know, but it’s the absolute truth. You do more damage…
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Now You See…The Broken Pieces Of Him & Me.
Y’all ever met someone who you felt was perfect for you? But your past and their past has your heart and mind in a choke hold? Well, that was me and “him.” I love him bad and deeply, and that wont ever change. We have a deep connection that cannot be explained. This poem touches…
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Finding Leesh Part 3.
I came outta the darkness, released all the pain. I’ll never let a trial, or a tribulation keep me derailed. Purpose in my pain. Wisdom in my noggin. If I don’t know anything I know there ain’t no stopping. Me and what I’m destined to be. Amazing mother, talented author, successful entrepreneur, and blogger. I’m…
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The Side Effects Of You
It was the spring of 2020.. the day that tall dark and handsome came in. He walked into my life and changed everything. Instant connection. The perfect combination of pleasure and pain. I wasn’t head over heels. I was hurt over heart. Love another man… ha I think not. I was initially standoffish when it…
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And Then I Woke Up…
Healing is hard but necessary… I decide to take you guys along on my journey with me. Let’s go… I found love in the midst of pain. Found hope in the darkness and the rain. All I wanted and searched for seemed so far away. But then you showed up and lit my world up.…
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Dear God, Are You Here?
Author: J’Lee Do you hear me calling out? There’s hurt and anguish in my voice. I’m screaming at the top of my lungs. Can you hear me now? Life isn’t always fair but God you promised you’d always be there. Sometimes I fear you cannot hear me how I want or need you to. I…
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Hole In My Soul
This poem was hard to write and even harder to post. This type of vulnerability is very hard to expose. We always celebrate love and hide hurt, heartache, and loss. I’m sure many of you have experienced the same heartbreak of your own. It’s now time to heal, blossom and grow. You’re worthy of love…
Life Lessons with Leesh 